Speaking of Trees

While those who know me may not believe it, I do consider myself a tree person. I may not be much of an outdoor person (sunburns, asthma, and all of that), but I do love to look at a pretty tree and hear the wind blow through its leaves.

One of the things I liked about my bedroom back when I was in high school and university was that as it was in the attic, I felt like I was almost living in the tree that grew outside my window. And when I lived in London, Ontario, our apartment on the 21st floor gave me a beautiful view across the “Forest City”. Our last apartment was near Toronto’s High Park, and it almost felt like we lived in the woods. Sadly, in our new home, in a new development, the trees aren’t much taller than I am.

Toronto isn’t the only city where trees are cleared to make room for new developments (not that there are a lot of trees to begin with). Rob Woutat writes in the Kitsap Sun about clear cutting in his area: Who Speaks for the Trees? We Should.

As an aside, Toronto offers free tree planting of native trees. If you are a tree person too, find out if your city offers a similar program and plant a tree in your own backyard. Not only will you make the world a prettier place, trees help keep down heating and cooling bills.

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Pond Update

Whoever told me that the first two weeks of having a baby were the toughest was crazy. Whoever told me that the first six weeks are the toughest was even crazier. Poor Baby C is colicky, and is driving quanta and I crazy. But his smilies, and his attempts to stuff his entire fist into his mouth, make it all worthwhile… more or less.

Blog entries, and new articles on The Lotus Pond, will continue to be sporadic at best until Baby C and I start sleeping through the night. I’ve got lots of notes, but no time to write them out into something coherent.

For the record, it took me three hours to write this entry. *sigh*

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To Do List Extreme!

I will admit to being one of those people who writes to do lists. I’ve also been known to use Outlook or Palm’s Task functionality, and even update my progress. I also manage to clear my to do lists on a regular basis. Or at least I did before Baby C came along.

To do lists have sort of become the latest internet trend. You can find sites like “Remember the Milk”:http://www.rememberthemilk.com/ that will help you keep your list online, and send reminders to you through your favourite messaging software. And then there is the the Getting Things Done (GTD) movement, spawned from “David Allen’s”:http://www.davidco.com/ work, and spread to the masses by sites like “Lifehacker”:http://lifehacker.com/ (a personal favourite).

But, there is such a thing as taking to do lists too far…



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New Arrival!

The newest addition to the Pond as finally arrived. Baby C was born on January 24, 2008 at 10:05 pm after 24 hours of labour. Mommy and baby are doing very well.

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As you can see, within a few minutes of being home, Isis had already decided that Baby C was cool.

Life has obviously changed a lot since he has arrived. Sleeping more then an hour at a time is a thing of the past, for example. Also gone are luxuries like a quick trip to the store, or a long bath. Soon enough he will grow up though, and I will look back on these days fondly… maybe.

In more mundane news, the blog has been upgraded to MT v. 4.1, in an attempt by quanta to keep his sanity while all this baby stuff has been going on. Leave a note in the comments if you notice something not working correctly.

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Rome or Reme?

For those keeping track, the baby is now six days late. Both the baby and I are still doing fine, but I am getting a little anxious. I’m also starting to get a little bored since I don’t want to start any new projects just in case I’m, you know, interrupted by going into labour. In the past week, though, I’ve finished cross stitching two bibs (picture after the break), read all 800 pages of the entire Chronicles of Narnia, and watched both seasons of HBO’s series Rome.

Rome was pretty good, even though it was far from accurate. I really appreciated how they didn’t make the city itself the beautiful marble megalopolis that most of us picture when thinking of Rome. The city wasn’t clad in marble, as it were, until after the series took place. (Octavian used the captured Egyptian treasure to start the transformation.) The city was dirty, the people rude and rough, and life clearly hard for anyone not a patrician. The depiction of Egypt, at least in the first season, was a bit disappointing. I’m not sure where the idea for the ratty wigs and face paint came from. In the second season, Egypt was a little better. However, Alexandra was more a Greek city than an Egyptian one, but that’s me being nit-picky and not appreciating that Rome is about the drama and not about the “copyright-free history of Rome”, as quanta has reminded me.

I am very surprised by some of the changes made for the sake of drama, though. For example, in Rome, Caesar’s freedman, Posca (a fictional character), steals Marc Antony’s will from Egypt and takes it to Octavian Caesar in Rome. In actuality, Marc Antony had left his will with the Vestal Virgins, as was the custom. Octavian (or someone in his employ) broke into their home/temple and stoled the will. Much more interesting and dramatic in my opinion. What about Marc Anthony’s wife Fulvia, who is thought to have tried to start a civil war in his name? And as for Cleopatra and Marc Antony’s deaths, more than a little artistic license was taken there. Surprisingly, Cleopatra still used a snake.

I wonder, though, about how genuine it is to set a story in a well recorded historical time, and present it as a fictionalized re-telling of events, and then change so many things. Sure, it is TV and it is all about the drama and the ratings. But how many people are now going to think that Octavia was an adulteress, when in fact she was held to be a paragon of Roman virtue; or that Marc Antony had an affair with with Octavian’s mother when nothing of the sort happened. Maybe in the next series about Rome, the creators will assume that Remus defeated Romulus, and call the show Reme.

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Reflections on Pregnancy

In just a few more days, a new baby will join quanta and I here at the Pond. So far I am feeling fine, but I am also well aware that things are moving along. Mostly though, I’m tired. I’m beginning to suspect that I’m not going to get that mythical burst of energy before I go into labour. Not that I particularly need it, since the house is clean and everything is ready for the baby. Although, there are all those baby announcements that should at least get addressed soon…

Seriously though, this is an exciting and scary time. I can’t wait to hold my baby, but I’m also concerned about his healthy and happiness, and wonder if we will be able to provide him with a good life. These are things all new parents worry about, I’m sure. Life, I know, will proceed the way it will proceed. The baby will either be colicky or not, he will either happily breastfeed or not. Although he is a helpless being (at least for a little while) he is also his own person. All quanta and I can do is provide love and support.

In some respects I am looking forward to the end of my pregnancy. Spending the last nine months carry around a baby has been surprisingly easy (except for two and a half months of Nausea and Vomiting of Pregnancy [a more severe form of morning sickness]). I’ve enjoyed the closeness that I feel has developed between the baby and me. But, I’m also looking forward to getting my body back, and to eventually eating and drinking what I like again. (I miss sushi!) I hope that I will also eventually find time to return to my spiritual pursuits and reconnect with the Tarot, both things that just haven’t seemed to work during my pregnancy. Oh yes, and it will be heaven to be able to sleep on my back again!

Things will likely be quiet around here for a little while. The baby is due on the 15th, but could show up any time. With some luck, it will be after I’ve managed to get in one more full night of sleep.

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Q-Ray and the Ancient Chinese Art of Scamming

Q-Ray bracelets make me laugh. Maybe it is the commercial, where, in one version yoga is said to be an “ancient Chinese art”, and a runner attributes her success to the bracelet…and possibly to her new coach. It may be because that the little ice block they use to display the bracelet in the commercial is really a place-card holder turned upside down. Or it could be that it reminds me of the weird Chinese guy and his long-life rings. (Sorry, no link for that one.) Regardless of the unlikeliness of a bracelet being able to mitigate pain, people seem to love them. When I worked at a gift shop, we sold similar looking perfectly normal silver bracelets (known as Taurus bracelets) that people snapped up because they said they worked just the same. Colour me skeptical.

Back in November, Canada’s excellent show Marketplace did an expose on the Q-Ray bracelet, which you can see here: Buying Belief. It is a long video, but well worth watching if you are tempted to buy one of these things. In short, the bracelets aren’t ionized like the commercials claimed, and they don’t do a darn thing. The president of the American branch of the Q-Ray company even admitted in court that he made up the ionization claim. But it is based on traditional Chinese medicine, both he and his son say. (quanta, my darling Chinese husband, believes that is pure bunk too.)

The sad thing is all the people in the Marketplace video who really believe in the powers of the Q-Ray. It is obviously the placebo effect in action. And if that is the case, is it really so bad? Well, I think that selling people false hope at $70-$300 at a time is awful. I’ve lived with years of chronic pain, so I am well aware of how desperately people seek anything that will give them relief. I have learned, though, that it is better to find ways to relieve the pain, such as physiotherapy, then to find ways to cover it up or pretend it doesn’t exist.

In November, the US courts ruled against Q-Ray and its claims of pain relief. This past Monday, the United States Court of Appeals of the Seventh Circuit upheld the ruling, ordering Q-Ray to return $16M to purchased of their bracelets. If you bought a Q-Ray between January 1, 2000 and June 30, 2003 (when the commercials claimed pain relief), call the FTC Q-Ray Hotline at 202-326-2063 in order to find out how to get a refund.

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